Jillian Adler Jillian Adler

Quieting Outside Noise


We have all been there: someone tells us they like our outfit, we might get a promotion at work, someone laughs at our jokes, etc. These external sources of validation can be like a drug. Similarly, we have all felt the sting of our joke not landing, someone commenting that they don’t like your shoes, and getting reprimanded by our boss. Are we now less funny, less cool, less stylish? Should we change our sense of humor, work-ethic, or style? I mean, we could

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